Friday, April 17, 2015

Never be a man's "placeholder"



Definition of "Placeholder" as it relates to dating: Someone used or included temporarily or as a substitute for someone that is not known or must remain generic; that which holds, denotes or reserves a place for someone to come later.

He doesn't keep coming back to you because he loves you. He keeps coming back to you because he hasn't yet found Ms. Right, and he knows you'll take him back. He keeps breaking up with you and dating other women because he's looking for Ms. Right.

Have you ever wondered how a man can date a woman for 5, 10+ years, never marry her, break up with her, meet another woman and marry her within 1 to 2 years of dating?  And treat her like royalty?  Yet, all those years he dated the "placeholder", he put her through hell.  This is why...she was simply a "placeholder". Don't ignore red flags.  Never settle for being a man's "placeholder". You deserve to be a man's wife.

Wishing you love, in its truth!